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the Leigh, Jeff and Dash Martin Web - Home page.6/29/09-Under construction: I'm trying to get this reorganized and navigable. Hey,
Welcome 2007!1/1/2007: Happy New Year! I am looking forward to 2007. 2006 was a not a bad year, but it was tough. Dash was a tremendous joy of course and because of him, the 2006 was the best year ever, but a tough year nonetheless. I have high hopes that Most of the new content is over at Dash's website: dashmartin.net. 3/24/06: Dash is doing well and is his happy self. He got a tooth yesterday. Bottom left central incisor. Not all that much of a fuss. Recent Web Updates(Dash's web)
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| Yesterday (1/21) we went to the
beach. I bundled Dash up real good and took him down to the
water. He seemed interested and curious but not necessarily
overwhelmed. I was happy to take him nonetheless.
I've often said that most of my ethical growth over the adult part of my life has come largely through dating (slight compromise unerringly leads to immediate unambiguous feedback). I'm sure parenting will present interesting dilemmas. A first occurred the other night at 4:00am. Dash has his various noisy periods of sleep, often cuz he's hungry, at around 5:00am cuz he's gassy, and eventually because he's up for the day. Well at 4:00am his eyes were wide open, he seemed to be "up." Leigh and I were awake but hoping to get back to sleep. "Don't excite him, maybe he'll go back to sleep." We'll Dash locks those big baby blues on to yours and breaks into his usual big smile (after his usual long night's rest, he radiates a 'Oh boy, another day, another day!' energy, which would be appreciated all the more if he radiated it at 7:00am instead of 5:00am). I gave him a flat return so as not to encourage him to stay awake. I don't remember whether he went back to sleep but I do remember worrying about it through work the next day. "Do I want to send him the message that happiness is conditional?" Definitely not. So from now on: big smile automatically gets a big smile. |
Dash, ready for Christmas at the beach. |
12/27/05 brief. Three days at home with Leigh and the boy was awesome. Those research boys at the baby supply manufacturers are pretty smart. Things that dangle can keep a nine-week old occupied for hours. Dash is learning that those hands of his are actually his. I was able to watch over the three day weekend and after work today (Tuesday) how he's getting control of his hands. No real dexterity yet, but he can put his fist on things. He's pretty focused. Hope he studies like that when he gets to college. He rolled on his side for the first time yesterday and a second time. He rolled all the way over onto his stomach before he realized that the Martin boys aren't so good at pushups. Let's assume I didn't find him completely adorable, I still stop and watch the spiders do their thing, so I find watching Dash develop absolutely fascinating. I better read up on developmental topics so that I can help. Right now I'm taking my lead from him. Much other than Dash is being neglected, but it's a privilege to be in the moment with him.
This is a picture of Dash a couple hours after his breakout.
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Our email addresses are:
- jeff @ leighandjeff.com
- leigh @l eighandjeff.com
- although for some reason Leigh prefers leighmartin @ san.rr.com
- Dash @ leighandjeff.com is received by both Leigh and me.
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